Whether it’s the fear of commitment caused by rejection and heartbreaks from the past or having money and daddy issues (thanks, dad), we all chose the sugar life for a reason – to be pampered and appreciated.
With Sugarbook, meeting a potential sugar daddy isn’t hard, the real deal is to impress him and make him stay.
Charming, mysterious and dominant, you’ve snagged yourself the daddy of your dreams! Well, except for one thing… you’re not sure if he’s in it for the long run!
Genuine, true blue sugar babies strive hard to maintain a good or even fantastic relationship and never, ever take things for granted to keep sugar daddies interested.
To help you be the best ever sugar baby, we’ve gathered some Do’s and Don’ts collected from real-life experienced sugar babies below so you’d want to take note!
Do’s and Don’ts for keeping your sugar daddy
DO: Flaunt your beauty
Of course, we’re talking about your beauty inside and out!
Let’s face it, one of the reasons you chose the sugar life was so that you could afford to look good and be the hottest version of yourself. You could do this without being a sugar baby too, but it sure makes things ten times easier!
Spice up your wardrobe, your makeup bag, and get your hair and nails done whenever you can before a date. If not to impress your sugar daddy, it also doesn’t hurt to look good AF 😉
Whenever you can, dress up for your sugar daddy. If his favourite colour is red, surprise him with a red lacey dress. Or, just be vocal and tell your sugar daddy that you dressed up especially for him to make him feel good.
DO: Be confident
One way to flaunt inner beauty is to be confident. Sugar daddies are visual and appearance does matter to them, but what matters most is also the aura that radiates within you.
To become a confident irresistible seductress, it’s more about developing inner confidence and a positive mindset than just putting on seductive lingerie.
Set any negativity and self-hate notions free. Remember, you don’t need to be the most attractive person in the world to keep a sugar daddy. Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty.
Instead of competing against other women with the way you look, which is basically a waste of time, stop worrying and focus your energy on striving for self-improvement.
DO: Master the art of not caring
Or at least pretend not to care. Because the less you care and instil an ‘I don’t give a f*ck’ mentality, the more attractive you will become.
Just do your thing, live in the moment, and have fun living the glam life! You will automatically appear harder to get and that’s when you know you have the upper hand.
Sugar daddies will instantly be seduced by your effortless charm and confidence, and they will do anything just to get your attention.
Also, let’s be real, you have to be prepared to be (or at least pretend to be) okay with the fact that you’re not the only sugar baby in your daddy’s books.
Jealousy is never attractive, so save the petty ‘what are we’ or ‘who is she’ questions and find your own explorations to distract yourselves.
DO: Date other sugar daddies
Unless both you and your sugar daddy have agreed to be exclusive, it should always be your best interest to keep your options open and never invest all your time and energy on ONE sugar daddy.
Putting all your eggs in one basket screams disaster, as you don’t have a backup plan in case things don’t pan out.
If you have a few options to choose from, not only will you get more sugar treatment from each one of your sugar daddies, you’ll appear to be more attractive as well.
By letting the sugar daddies know that you’re wanted by many, it automatically increases your value and they’ll do whatever it takes to eliminate the other competitors just to fight for your attention. Again, you call the shots!
DO: Have goals and ambitions
Sure, you depend on your sugar daddy for certain things, but you should also have something going for yourself like your studies, work, or perhaps a passion project that you’ve been working on.
Because while you’re living a carefree life thanks to your sugar daddy, what happens when the relationship ends abruptly?
Pour your heart and energy into focusing on your own goals. Every now and then, don’t be afraid to discuss your progress with your sugar daddy, he might just have some useful pointers to give you from his own personal experience!
It also won’t hurt for your sugar daddy to see that you have your own thing going on, which he may find incredibly attractive too.
DON’T: Be clingy
As the saying goes, “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. So, never appear to be too available or you’ll lose your charm.
Sometimes, it’s okay to keep a distance from your sugar daddies, as your absence will make them miss you, fantasise about you, and make them wonder if you’re with another sugar daddy.
Trust us, these thoughts will definitely drive them crazy!
The best part is when you finally go on dates, they get to be enchanted by your presence all over again.
DON’T: Make it all about the money
A big part of being a sugar baby is about the pocket money, but it’s also about building a genuine relationship with the sugar daddies you meet.
When you focus on the relationship, such as getting to know your sugar daddy as you would in any other kind of relationship, you can reap more rewards than just pocket money in the end.
DON’T: Take things for granted
Every now and then, show your daddy that you appreciate them being in your life!
Make him feel like he’s spoiling you, which he probably is anyway, so just a simple thank you can go a long way.
When you take things for granted, your sugar daddy might feel like you are expecting this kind of treatment.
Remember, your sugar daddy doesn’t HAVE to give you gifts or pocket money, he does it because he wants to. Once you stop being appreciative, there’s no saying that the relationship won’t end out of nowhere.
To fully maximise your potential as a sugar baby, you need to first eliminate any negative energy from your past, and mute yourself from all the judgmental bigots who think it’s okay to tell you what to do with your life.
Give yourself a pat on the shoulder and be proud of yourself for being courageous, for finally stepping out of your comfort zone and for not settling for less than you deserve!
We hope our tips help you keep your sugar daddies on the hook as you make them fall head over heels for you, and they will definitely want to come back for more.
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